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April Contributor Spotlight – Lucinda Marsden

AUTISTICA TURING CITIZEN SCIENCE NEWSLETTER

Today we are spotlighting Lucinda Marsden.

Lucinda is an AutSPACEs collaborator, who has given valuable insights to the project since it’s inception. She has been an important advocate for diverse inclusion and fair remuneration for participatory scientists.

I am the mother of an autistic young person with complex needs.

I promote acceptance and awareness of individuals, families, and caregivers affected by severe forms of autism by giving a voice to their realities and needs.

They are a vulnerable, growing and overshadowed population and there are huge gaps in policy and services and the special attention they require.

I feel my job is to listen and then give ALL autistic people a voice. I actively seek out and take part in focus groups and discussion sessions where I can share my lived experience and ideas for how to make autism research serve everyone, not just the easiest to reach.

I strongly advocate for diverse inclusion and fair remuneration for autistic people and caregivers involved in autism research. Otherwise, charities and researchers risk discriminating against the very groups they are trying to help, whom, in many cases, cannot work and as a result live below the poverty line. No one works for nothing and nor should caregivers and autistic people. Our knowledge is worth something.

I was asked by the Head of Priors Court school (http://www.priorscourt.org.uk/) to join their research board.

I presented with the Alan Turing Institute at CogEx.

I am an @womenofyear alumna.

In my spare time, I am a writer of fiction and non-fiction and I like to run (slowly) and read a lot – not at the same time.

Lastly, I love this recent Twitter quote from father, director, writer and teacher, Stephen Unwin (@RoseUnwin)

“In our championing of the many splendid things that so many learning disabled and / or neurodivergent people can do, we must be careful not to marginalise or forget those who can do less.”

Recent quotes!

‘Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Your charity helped my son. He is verbal and excelling in life. Your funding helped me win a tribunal to give him the support he needed. Thank you!!!’ ANON

‘We will never forget how much your charity helped our J xx’

Duff’s running The Royal Parks Half Marathon (Fred’s Dad)

I first ran the Royal Parks Half for The Fred Foundation 10 years ago and this year I’ll be doing it again.  The course hasn’t got any shorter and I don’t seem to be any younger but I’m still proud to be running for The Fred.  

The  charity, inspired by my son Fred, has been supporting autistic children with complex needs and their families since 2007.  

It helps fund education programmes that allow autistic children with complex needs to reach their potential through individualised, specialised programmes that match their needs instead of a ‘one size fits all’ approach.  Education is the only commonly accepted intervention for autistic children with complex needs and in every case, the early years are critical to finding that child again and unlocking their world. 

The recent pandemic has highlighted, with sometimes heartbreaking results, how lack of the right support can cause immense suffering, not only to children with complex autism, but also their families.

Please donate what you can here – it will help The Fred Foundation and also inspire me to get round!

THANK YOU!

Donating through JustGiving is simple, fast and totally
secure.  Once you donate, they’ll send your money directly to The Fred Foundation and make sure Gift Aid is reclaimed on every eligible donation by a UK taxpayer.

Autism’s Quiet Heroes “Underestimate siblings at your peril because they grow up to be extraordinary adults and you want them on your side.”

By Melissa Collins-Porter

For this year’s autism awareness month, I’d like to honor and celebrate the siblings. They love their brothers or sisters fiercely, yet quietly endure being dragged to therapists’ offices and doctor appointments and get used to only Mom or Dad coming to their events because one has to stay with their sibling. They often are forced to concentrate on homework amidst what reasonable people would call total chaos. From a young age, they have an awareness that at some point, they will likely become caregivers to their sibling. They may feel guilt about the fullness of their own lives (friends, sports, activities, travel, independence, college) in contrast to that of their sibling. They may feel pressure to be “the quiet one,” “the good one,” “the easy one.” They have become used to cancelled plans, destroyed or lost personal items, and giving up their own preferences to appease their brother or sister. They tirelessly stand up for their siblings when people ask questions, stare, or use “autistic” as a pejorative at school. Underestimate them at your peril, because they grow up to be extraordinary adults and you want them on your side. This one right here is my hero.

The writer is a filmmaker who lives in Southern California.

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